finger paint and life/blogging crossroads
Posted: March 20, 2013 | Author: Jena | Filed under: after school cool down, Artsy Fartsy, body/mind/spirit, Developmental Themes, Jena's work, Paint, sensory, Small Motor Skill, Working Together | 1 Comment »We’ve been trying to keep things light and simple around here lately. Life and schedules can quickly get complicated. I am guilty of being seduced by exiting plans/activities that make our days as thick as the very best peanut butter. Like the very best peanut butter, which is delicious, if you eat too much, too rich. Days become so tight, we lose free flow time. When this happens, we all get restless. There has to be a balance, and right now, for us, that means picking our most important activities and keeping time for chilling as a family.
One way we’ve been keeping it simple is by choosing basic, open-ended activities, where there is no specific outcome, the activity unfolds as we go…a hike, a snowy hill, some dirt, paint etc. We like finger paint. We put out all the pots of color. The kids empty them with their fingers one by one, and smear the colors on paper, blending, scraping and filling the space.
The pots are empty now. We hope to mix up a batch of homemade finger paint.
Little J goes to Kindergarden full time this year, and we miss him terribly. We had him signed up for karate that met 2-3 times a week and swim lessons. This didn’t seem like much compared to my friends and their families, but it was too much for us. We sometimes, take care of other kids, I work 3 evenings a week and some Saturdays. We also try to fit in exercise, date nights and managing the house…laundry, cooking, cleaning. All this combined made us feel like we were in fast forward and increasingly estranged from one another. So, we dropped karate, I’m being careful to not over schedule us with extra kids and unfortunately, the blog has taken a hit. Stepping away from the computer during family time has been a great thing for us.
When I started blogging, I had 2 small children all day. They napped, I blogged. It was a creative outlet, a way to socialize, but now, I need to carve time out of my day to make it happen. I can’t always afford the time, especially when it involves keeping up with and learning a technology, managing its quirks. Sometimes, instead, I choose to run or take a yoga class or have a sit on the couch with my hubby, or joining my kids in their play without a camera or a bloggy agenda.
For now, my posts will be sporadic.
We’re still having lots of fun making messes and will share when it’s a good one.
Comment if you can relate.
Jena @ HappyLittleMesses
Perler Bead Valentine
Posted: February 13, 2013 | Author: Jena | Filed under: after school cool down, Artsy Fartsy, Community, Holiday, Small Motor Skill, Tradition, Working Together | Leave a comment »Little J has decided that he would like to make a Perler Bead heart for each of his classmates.
He’s inspired by a little beaded heart my neice gave me for Christmas.
We set to work trying to figure out how to make one.
We fill a cookie cutter with beads and melt them, but they’re a little too fragile.
We end up buying a Perler mold, fit with tiny pegs for every little bed in the shape of a heart and set to work.
What you’ll need: a Perler bead mold of your choice, Perler Beads of course, an iron set on medium, wax paper, a steady hand and lots of time and patience.
Setting 100+ beads in the mold is hard work, surgeon hard. I think it should be a required study for doctors studying to be surgeons to Perler bead. You need a very patient and steady hand We use tweezers when beads slip out of our fingers. The kids love this part…and this is a family affair. Everyone takes turns putting beads on the little plastic pegs that fill the mold.
The three year old put in a couple of beads and lost patients, attention when the bead fell off the pegs. He drifted off to play with cars leaving me to finish the heart on my own, no plea would get him to return.
The four year old lasted a little longer, but not much, could finish the heart with consistent adult help.
The five year old had just enough small motor skill and patience to make 1 heart a day…keep in mind he needs 20.
We started this project a month ago, with mom secretly making a heart on her own every now and then after the kids are tucked in for the night.
It takes a little over 6 minutes to make one heart.
When all the beads are set in place, you sandwich the mold and beads behind a layer of wax paper, ironing the beads in small circular motions for about 10 seconds. If you iron for longer, the holes of the beads melt shut, which is kinda cool too. Don’t put your iron directly on the beads. Not a happy mess!
We choose to keep the wholes in the beads so we can sting them. We hope people might hand the hearts in their windows.
et voila
The Festival of (Giving) Trees
Posted: November 29, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: Artsy Fartsy, Community, Holiday, textiles, Working Together | Leave a comment »The Festival of (Giving) Trees is a four day family event, designed to be a holiday activity. Chosen organizations donate a artificial tree decorated with a theme. The MOMS Club was chosen to contribute a tree. Trees are raffled. The mission is to raise money to help the Silent Spring Institute, the Massachusetts Breast Cancer Coalition and the Cancer Center at Harrington Hospital to fight the battle against breast cancer and to help fund cancer research. Over the past fourteen years, the Festival of (Giving) Trees has raised and donated over $390,000 to these beneficiaries.
MOMS Club puts up a family tree, themed yarn and color. MOMS, dads and kiddos help hang the ornaments.
The tree is beautiful.
Making Ornaments: Community Holiday Trees
Posted: November 26, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: after school cool down, Artsy Fartsy, Community, Holiday, Jena's work, Recycling, Small Motor Skill, textiles, Working Together | Leave a comment »In the winter, the MOMS Club contributes to two holiday tree events.
The Festival of (Giving) Trees is a four day family event, designed to be a holiday activity. Chosen organizations donate a artificial tree decorated with a theme. The MOMS Club was chosen to contribute a tree. Trees are raffled. The mission is to raise money to help the Silent Spring Institute, the Massachusetts Breast Cancer Coalition and the Cancer Center at Harrington Hospital to fight the battle against breast cancer and to help fund cancer research. Over the past fourteen years, the Festival of (Giving) Trees has raised and donated over $390,000 to these beneficiaries.
The theme we’ve chosen for this tree is yarn and color. We score Pinterest for simple, colorful yarn ornament ideas that families can do together.
wrap yarn around a wire shape
God’s eyes
lacing cards
finger knit garland
The town’s Conservation Commission organizes a Winter Tree Scavenger Hunt. The object of the hunt is to find 8-10 decorated trees, take your photo with each tree and email all photos to the Conservation Commission between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day.
The Scavenger Tree will be sticks and stones: Nature’s Best Toys Ever! Approved by the MOMS Club of Sturbridge.
We paint sticks,
color on hot stones,
and modge modge magazine bits onto stones too.
We set up a morning at the local basement of the Federated Church for MOMS and kids to play with yarn. We share project ideas on the MOMS Club Facebook page and set up goodie bags with supplies people can take home to work on the ornaments on their own time.
We will meet at the church to decorate the yarn and color tree.
We will meet in the woods to pick a tree and hang sticks and stones.
Good Deed Jug
Posted: November 1, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: after school cool down, Community, Developmental Themes, Jena's work, Working Together | Leave a comment »I’ve been inspired by 2 great ideas, combined them and created a communal, “Good Deed Jug”. It’s great for this time of the year, when children are expected to be accountable for their behaviors more often because of the impending holidays.
1. In Little J’s Kindergarden classroom, every good deed earns a child a cotton ball in a pouch hung on the wall. If you fill your pouch, you can choose a prize from a box. Little J has filled his pouch once and earned himself a giant bubble wand and plate for the bubble solution.
2. On Pinterest, I find an idea to, “Scribble your thanks on scraps of paper and store them in a mason jar or small box.”
The boys’ behavior has hit a snag lately, and it’s driving me to the brink of craziness…the sole to sole chats and time outs aren’t having a huge impact.
I need to see some attitude changes here people…
I’d love to create a situation where their good behavior is rewarded in a healthy way.
BUT
*I shy away from sugary or colorful, plastic rewards.
*If I write down their “good deeds,” and represent it with a now familiar cotton ball. The jug will become full.
*We can celebrate by reading back all of their good deeds and reinforcing those positive actions.
The actions we celebrate are, helping a friend, communicating successfully, saying something nice, doing something that’s expected without having to be told or reminded, choosing a non violent, non screaming, non abusive avenue when having strong feelings.
Our jug is 1/8 full.
Rainbow Warrior Dash, Setting Up Obstacles
Posted: August 31, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: Artsy Fartsy, body/mind/spirit, Building, Community, Developmental Themes, Drawing, Imagination, large motor skill, Outside, Working Together | 3 Comments »I’m running away from the fact that my little man is entering full time Kindergarten by throwing an “end of summer” obstacle course party. I’ve been dreaming up this event since I participated in the Warrior Dash and Color Me Rad races and saw the excitement on my kids’ faces.
We work hard this week to set up the obstacles we’ve imagined up for this “Mini Rainbow Warrior Dash.” Everyday, we do a little something to prepare. We trim branches in the deep dark woods and in the forsythia fort, rake out all the leaves and sticks and small stumps. We paint low branches orange to let kids know to crawl under or climb over. My team of kids love to trim branches with our shears and to paint non-traditional objects, so they are really into this.
Certain kids who have thought up a certain obstacle take charge of specific projects.
Friend H designs the “Lazy River,” made with a found playground slide, dry lily stalks and river stones. We’ll be adding the hose on low water flow.
Little J and Friend A think of jumping over fire, and after convincing them against real fire, we brainstorm a way to represent fire instead. We use real fire wood with cardboard triangles painting red, wedged into the cracks between logs.
Little K thinks to use our small collection of hoola hoops. We hang them from branches of our crab apple tree so kids can lunge through the hoops.
My ideas are incorporated too. I have simple ideas, like hopping on slate stones, skipping through the spokes of a ladder, pushing rolling toys around a chalk road on the driveway…
…using caution cones and hay bales borrowed from Big K’s work, and taking advantage of our more natural playground elements, like the sandbox, the deep dark woods and our forsythia fort.
All together we have 16 kid friendly obstacles.
The kids try a dry run. We iron out some wrinkles, like undetected stumps and prickers, and have a record so far of 2 minutes 45 seconds, held by Friend H.
The kids help me with every aspect of this set up.
Each obstacle can be used individually for an afternoon of fun with kids.
If you like any idea in particular, you are welcome to use it!
We are inviting our friends over to play tomorrow. We’ll see if anyone can break Friend H’s record.
Stay tuned for a head cam movie of the obstacle course after the race. My talented Brother-in-Law has agreed to be the photographer during the event. Thanks Mick. And thank you Big K, for being so flexible with these big plans, for bringing us hay and cones, for weed whacking the forsythia fort and helping me lug all the heavy stuff. You rock babe!
Rainbow Warrior Dash, Gathering Ideas
Posted: August 23, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: Artsy Fartsy, body/mind/spirit, Community, Developmental Themes, Drawing, Experimentation, Imagination, large motor skill, Outside, Working Together | Leave a comment »To celebrate the end of a full and adventurous summer, we are planning a “mini rainbow warrior dash” for the kids and all their friends.
The kids have seen me run in fun races all summer. They got to stroll along with us in Color Me Rad. They have so much fun at these events that I thought to create an obstacle course suited for children.
Combining the themes from races, we came up with a rainbow warrior dash. The kids and are are in brainstorming mode, making lists and collecting ideas. We have a list of supplies, ideas on how to use them and some great imaginations working on fantastic ways to run, jump, crawl, slide and balance.
Once the kids have their list of ideas, they draw some of the obstacles. Friend A draws a map of the obstacle course. Little K draws a hoola hoop around a boy. Little J works on a logo.
These are some of their ideas:
jump over mountain of toys
hoola hoop as fast as you can
crawl under branches in the deep dark forest
climb over mountain of hay bales
get through a spider web
lazy river, slide with rocks.
crawl through tunnels
jump over pretend fire
lemonade stand
Any other ideas?
Good Crafternoon
Posted: August 8, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: Artsy Fartsy, Community, Cut and Paste, Developmental Themes, Experimentation, Field Trip, Jena's work, Working Together | Leave a comment »The library hosts a summer “Crafternoon,” where our children’s librarian invites guest “crafters” to have a table, and offers 2 hours of projects to the families signed up for the event.
There are 4 tables:
There is an origami table, where Little J and Friend A work on a volcano made from paper. They also learn step-by-step, how to make a great crane and paper airplane.
The second table Ms. McDonald is helping kids make dreamcatchers with paper plates, yarn, beads feathers and markers. Little K has been asking for a dreamcatcher for weeks and this project could not have come along for him at a better time.
The third table, I didn’t get a photos of, Little J and Friend K making a foam frame decorated with tent, raccoon, bon fire and marshmallows. It is a prepackaged kit that the kids arrange and glue themselves.
The last table is for happylittlemesses. We are originally asked to help with tie dye, but we suggest the good old Pinterest favorite, color sharpie and rubbing alcohol, instead.
This summer’s reading program has been themed “Dream Big,” featuring night time stories about fireflies, bats, camping and big dreams. To go along with that theme, we work with sharpie and rubbing alcohol on white pillow cases.
I refrain from guiding the kids as they draw with the sharpie. The ideas online all point towards making dots and circles with the marker. The marks bleed together and create a fireworks effect that is beautiful. I want the kids to have the supplies and make their own ideas/interpretation. Maybe they’ll teach me something.
When they are finished with their drawings, they get a little cup of rubbing alcohol with a q-tip. The fumes in the room become very overwhelming. We open all the windows and doors. In hind sight, it might have been better to do this project outside. If you’d like better directions on the how to for sharpie tie dye, see these instructions.
There’s no need to wait for your local library to come up with this great idea so you can join in. Get a great group of friends together, have each family bring a project to the table and have yourselves a good Crafternoon.
Drawing and Coloring In, on Canvas
Posted: June 27, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: Artsy Fartsy, Drawing, Paint, Small Motor Skill, Working Together | Leave a comment »For his 5th birthday, Little J receives a canvas packet containing small tubes of acrylic paint, paintbrush and paint palette. The canvas has a fire truck printed on it. Little J pulls it out while we clean in the Studio and wants to get to work. Little K feels left out, so I grab a canvas for him and ask him what he would like drawn on it. Blanchita, his special friend and co sleeper is what we decide upon. I draw a portrait of Blanchita on the canvas with a Sharpie marker.
While Blanchita sits on the Studio table and watches, Little K chooses his palette of colors from a box of acrylic paint…whites, yellows, oranges and browns. He sets to work filling in the drawing with color. I’ve never seen him so dedicated or spend so much time on a drawing project.
Canvases are inexpensive and often found on sale. You can draw something special on a canvas for your kids, or have them draw an idea of their own. This makes for unique, special and beautiful wall art for your home or as a gift.
5 Cents a Fan
Posted: June 25, 2012 | Author: Jena | Filed under: Artsy Fartsy, Community, Imagination, Outside, Recycling, Tradition, Working Together | 2 Comments »There is a mini heatwave that coincides with the last 2 days of school. The last couple of days of school for Friend H, I can only guess, the kids are cleaning out their cubbies, watching fun movies, drawing tables and playing games with friends. I know for sure Friend H and her friends were folding fans. She hops off the bus on Friday and declares her desire to set up a fan stand at the driveway. She pulls out some old paper from her backpack, folds it back and forth, finds the colored tape dispenser and tapes it closed at one end. She decorates the pleats with more colored tape.
Friend H sets up a table and some chairs to the edge of the driveway and hangs a sign. 5 cents a fan. Lemonade stands are illegal without a permit from the health inspector here in town, so this is a perfect idea for kids on a hot day. It is the time of year for this “craft.” Paint Cut Paste recently had a post about folded fans and father’s day cards.
I advertise to local friends on Facebook. Friend H waits for about 20 minutes in the heat and gives up, lured by the need to swim in the pool after no one stops. Her Dad comes and picks her up. Ten minutes later, a MOM friend stops by with a quarter and an order for 5 fans, 1 for each person in her family.
Jonah and I put together 5 fans. Little J wants to use “boy colors” and “girl colors.” He chooses red for the girls and green and orange for boys. He rainbow colors in the pleats with markers in “boy and girl colors.”
Do you remember making fans? Did you ever assign gender to color?














































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